Life Journey for Adopters and Families

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Life Journey Work helps adopted children and young people understand their story in a way that is honest, age-appropriate and supportive. It is an ongoing process that supports identity, emotional wellbeing and understanding as children grow.

You don’t need to have all the answers. Many adopters worry about when to share information, how much to say, or whether they are saying the “right” thing. Life Journey Work is there to support you and your child over time – not to get everything perfect in one moment.

If you are a professional, please visit the Life Journey Work for Professionals page to find useful resources and guidance for professionals

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Talking to your child about their life story

Guidance and ideas for starting conversations, keeping them going, and revisiting them as your child grows.

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Life Journey Work resources

Tools, activities and information to help you support your child’s understanding of their story.

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Life Journey Work and Welsh Early Permanence

How Life Journey Work can be supported in Welsh Early Permanence Placements

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Difficult conversations support group

A supportive space for adopters to explore challenging conversations around adoption, alongside others with shared experiences.

Difficult conversations support group
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LJW newsletters and bulletins

Updates, practice guidance and focused bulletins on specific Life Journey Work themes.

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 Life Journey Work & Contact

The important link between life journey work and contact with birth family, siblings and important people. 

Learn more about Contact
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Life Journey Work Guide for Birth Parents

A Guide for Birth Parents

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A teenagers letter to adopters

A teenagers letter to adopters

This is an honest letter from an adopted young person sharing their experience of life story work, the complexities of being adopted and the importance of identity.

Read the letter

When to reach out for support

It’s okay to ask for help with Life Journey Work. You might want support if:

• You’re unsure what information to share or when.
• Your child is asking new or difficult questions.
• Conversations feel emotionally challenging or stuck.
• You’re worried about how contact links to your child’s story.

Your local adoption service can help you think things through, plan conversations, and find the right support for your family.

We also welcome your ideas - let us know if there are topics you’d like to see on the website or areas of Life Journey Work you’d like to learn more about. Email us your ideas to contact@adoptcymru.com

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Need more support?

If you’re not sure where to start, or would like to speak to someone about Life Journey Work, you can contact your local adoption team or the National Adoption Service for guidance.

Contact us at contact@adoptcymru.com